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The Sexiest 3 Words a Man can Say to a Woman

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“I love you.” (nope) “You look beautiful.” (nope) “Let’s go shopping!” (depends how you say it, but still, no) “How’s your mother?” (no, this will just make her suspicious of you) Those are all nice to say, and many women want to hear them from their partner; they like to feel cherished. But none of those by themselves will necessarily have her soften all warm-putty-like into your hairy masculine arms. The three sexiest words I’m referring to speak to primal forces within both men and women. An archetypal trip wire, these eight letters strung together can trigger a man’s spine…

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Dating and Self Esteem

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Joanie Chapman, MA, MFTI Joanie specializes in working with individuals, families,  adolescents, and couples using a goal oriented treatment  approach to therapy which emphasizes self-awareness, insight and empowerment. By highlighting the “how-to’s” for reducing stress/anxiety, building strong coping skills, and increasing  self-esteem, she works in a collaborative way to create the positive changes you want to see your life. Joanie actively works with several community organizations in the South Bay developing programs in our South Bay school districts, Substance Abuse Task Force Committees, youth programs and mental health workshops. Her area of expertise include: child behavioral modification/Parenting, …

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What is an awakening man?

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Reflections on an Awakening Man An “Awakening Man” wants a woman who will speak her truth to him, a woman who knows men aren’t equipped to read minds or even not-so-subtle clues. He also wants her to hold him accountable to his highest potential, which she instinctively sees in him (don’t you, ladies?!) – and always with love and respect. He does NOT want her looking for every flaw in an attempt to make him perfect or fill her own emptiness. That’s just annoying. But he also doesn’t want her to hold back when she sees him acting out of…

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